**Disclaimer: I am in no way, shape or form a relationship expert.
This is literally the most annoying hashtag I’ve ever seen. I know, I’m probably going to get so much hate for that lol but it’s true! The relationship goals of women today are ridiculous! I was recently scrolling through Facebook and seen a post (that I’m not going to go into on here lol) but the #goals at the end totally killed me. I know you’re probably dying to know what the post said, but I’m sure you’ve seen a ridiculous amount of things #goals in fact I’m positive you have.
Goals are a great thing to have, in fact you all better have some goals set for yourselves! Big or small! But hashtagging Kim and Kanye is not realistic. Believe it or not I’ve heard it plenty of times about Carlin & myself “you guys are #goals” lol what does that mean?! We worked pretty hard to get where we are now, if you could have seen Carlin and Jasmine six years ago you probably wouldn’t have thought we’d be where we are now. Okay, so we weren’t actually that bad lol at least I don’t think we were 😬.
Nothing worth having comes easy, I think that’s how the saying goes. It’s awesome that people think our relationship is “goal worthy” lol but it’s not like this thang just happened over night! It took time and work and lots of it. We’ve gone through our fair share of problems but those are the things that made us stronger. You know what else helped? NOT putting every issue on Facebook, twitter, Instagram & snapchat! I promise you that every time Johnny makes you mad facebooking it does not solve the problem lol. Not only is it annoying for anyone on your friends list it also makes YOU look bad, not Johnny lol. Every break up and makeup doesn’t need to be documented on social media. Also, for you “the more I say it or the better I articulate my post the more I believe what I’m doing is alright” ladies STOP. No matter how educated or beautifully written your post about moving from Johnny to Billy to Jack and back to Johnny again is, it doesn’t make it totally okay lol. Again, these are just my opinions others may not agree with me. As I stated in the beginning I’m no relationship expert. I just know what’s worked for me and my relationship and some of you seem to find it “goal worthy” so why not lend a little help?
I probably sound like a huge B word lol. That is not my intention at all. I just see so many things that make me want to scream STOP! If you don’t take one look at yourself you’ll probably never have that relationship you’re looking for. If you never see your own faults you’ll continue to attract the same partner. What good is that doing for ya? Not much because all of these guys knows exactly what to say or do to keep you happy momentarily. They can pretty much do whatever they want to you and then buy you some flowers and you Instagram them with hashtag goals and all is good in your world. Ugh, you’re reading this and thinking I’m totally not subscribing to this chicks blog, she might be speaking some truth lol. That’s fine. Maybe, my next post will be more up your alley. Maybe not 🤔
Blogs are supposed to be real so this is me 100%. All I’m saying is a little, sometimes a lot of work is involved to having a great relationship and get out of your mind that there is a PERFECT relationship! There is a relationship perfect for YOU! It may not be perfect for me or anyone else but if it works for you and your partner that is all that matters!
So I guess I’ll end this post by saying the hashtag relationship goals isn’t so bad. As long as those goals are truly obtainable and they’re meaningful to you. I’m still not hastagging my pictures goals though guys 😂😂.
Happy Thursday my friends! Enjoy your FRIDAY EVE 🙌🏽 one more day until the weekend! 😍😍